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How to Get a Divorce in Florida

October 5, 2021

This article was written by Freya Robbins One of the most common questions I get asked is “How to get a divorce in Florida”?  Florida is a no-fault state, and it is an equitable distribution state, meaning that it is no one’s fault that there is a divorce and that the couple must divide their…

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Business Mediation: How Can That Help Me?

October 4, 2021

Business mediation can present itself in many different forms from having issues with a: Co-worker Business partner HR issue Associate Separate business Family business The process of mediation helps both parties involved talk about the issues at hand and listen to one another while working together to create a fair agreement that works for all…

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Elder Mediation: How Can That Help Me?

September 27, 2021

This article was written by Freya Robbins Elder mediation is not a term that people are often familiar with hearing. Elder mediation is often used when an adult child has an aging parent. Elder mediation is especially important when you have several family members involved that are not in agreement about their loved one’s current…

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Divorce Mediation: How Can That Help Me?

September 6, 2021

This article was written by Freya Robbins   Divorce mediation involves two parties and a neutral third party. The objective of divorce mediation is to maintain the integrity of the family relationship, reduce the emotional and financial stress of divorce, and achieve resolution so you can both move on with your lives. Here at Zollinger…

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Marriage Mediation: How Can It Help Me?

August 30, 2021

This article was written by Freya Robbins Marriage mediation focuses on working with a couple together to find the root of some of the tension they have had in their relationship. Working with couples to communicate effectively, listen to one another, and help the couple come up with a plan of action to mend their…

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Video | P.E.A.C.E Through Divorce: Step by Step Planning for a Peaceful Dissolution of Marriage

September 6, 2020

As a CDFA™, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst I specialize in helping people see their financial situations clearly both for the present and for the future. I understand that when we get to the end of a relationship, we just want it over.  Generally and understandably, that is because we find it painful to remain in a…

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Divorce Options: Private Mediation vs. Litigation

August 14, 2020

This article was written by Freya Robbins There are a lot of extreme fundamental differences between the private mediation process and litigated divorce.  The good news is that the option is almost entirely up to you.  Note: If your case involves any kind of domestic violence or child abuse your case belongs in the hands of…

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Time to Trade In or Restore Your Relationship?

June 17, 2020

This article was written by Freya Robbins Are you considering it may be time to trade in that Old Jalopy? Are you thinking an updated model may help you get more mileage out of your relationship? Is the engine of your relationship misfiring? Relationships can be a little like cars. We love the bright and…

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Freya’s Personal Reflections About Mediation

June 15, 2020

This article was written by Freya Robbins Interestingly enough, in today’s Google accessible world, mediation is still relatively novel and little known to the general population. So I often find that people have questions about what I do and why I do it. Mediation is an effective alternative to a courtroom dispute. It is being…

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Beyond Making it Work: What to Expect Once Divorce is Certain

June 3, 2020

This article was written by Freya Robbins First, before we ever bring the dreaded D word into the discussion, I would hope you two are talking. It would be wise to reach out to a competent counselor, marriage mediator, pastor or close mutual friend, to help facilitate you making an earnest effort to communicate whatever…

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Co-Parenting 101: You Will Always Be a Family

April 10, 2020

The first and most fundamental thing we try to get across in any mediation where children are involved, is that this process: the divorce process, is no longer about you and your spouse and who did what and why the marriage failed. It is now about your children. They did not get a choice in…

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Using a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins What are the major benefits of using a certified divorce financial analyst in a divorce ? Many people, both divorcing parties and attorneys struggle with where to place a CDFA in the divorce process and how to use them effectively. So here are some pointers: 1. CDFAs are…

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Bringing in the New Year

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins Happy New Year to You! Out With the Old and In with the New!! Are you suffering from Holiday Hangover? Many couples feel that way after the Holidays! The holiday season typically consists of dealing with family issues, in-laws and finances that can strain your marriage. Many divorces…

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Financial Facts Regarding Divorce

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins Question: How much should I plan on spending for my divorce? Answer: That is difficult to say without knowing the specifics involved in your divorce. The current rate for a Family Law Attorney is $250-$350 per hour. There are many other costs associated with divorce. For instance a…

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Anticipating Divorce?

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins If you have not been affected by it, you are in the minority these days. The figures are staggering of the incidence of divorce in our country, our state and our own community. Over 50% of divorcing couples choose the “do it yourself approach” or pro se (self…

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Divorce, Feast or Famine?

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins When you think of going through a divorce, do your thoughts take you to a situation that is to the extreme, either feast or famine? If you find yourself on the path of divorce, you have probably heard friends or acquaintances make comments like “Oh, my ex got…

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The Hardest Phase of Divorce

August 30, 2011

Perhaps the most difficult period of divorce is the “separation period.” That is the time between when you decide to get a divorce, and the date when you are actually divorced. During this period there can be so many uncertainties about visitation with children, child support and temporary spousal support that it is easy to…

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3 Ways Marriage Mediation Can Help a Relationship

August 30, 2011

This article was written by Freya Robbins First of all, you may be wondering what marriage mediation is? Most of us have heard of divorce mediation, which is a neutral third party that assists a couple in getting a divorce. So, the likely and correct answer is, marriage mediation is a neutral third party that…

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The Dirty Word of Divorce

September 1, 2006

Freya’s Financial Facts Regarding DivorceWest Coast WomanPublished September, 2006 If you have not been affected by it, you are in the minority these days. The figures are staggering of the incidence of divorce in our country, our state and our own community. Over 50% of divorcing couples choose the “do it yourself approach” or pro…

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Property Settlement, Child Support and Alimony in Divorce

July 1, 2006

This article was written by Freya Robbins It is very easy for divorcing parties to get confused about the treatment of property division and alimony as separate issues in divorce. Divorce settlement is a 3 step process in Florida. Step 1, is division of assets. It is important to note that this is completely separate…

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