Divorce, Feast or Famine?

Posted on 2011/08/30

When you think of going through a divorce, do your thoughts take you to a situation that is to the extreme, either feast or famine? If you find yourself on the path of divorce, you have probably heard friends or acquaintances make comments like “Oh, my ex got everything!”, or “I lost everything, the house and all the furniture!” When you hear comments like this, know that you are only hearing one person’s perspective. Perhaps in reality one party did get the house, but it is also likely that the other party received an investment account of equal value. You … Continue reading →

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The Hardest Phase of Divorce

Posted on 2011/08/30

Perhaps the most difficult period of divorce is the “separation period.” That is the time between when you decide to get a divorce, and the date when you are actually divorced. During this period there can be so many uncertainties about visitation with children, child support and temporary spousal support that it is easy to feel overwhelmed, not to mention the very normal emotional ups and downs that you may experience during this phase. Here are some questions you may face during this period: Should I get a check each month for support or let my spouse just pay the … Continue reading →

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3 Ways Marriage Mediation Can Help a Relationship

Posted on 2011/08/30

First of all, you may be wondering what marriage mediation is? Most of us have heard of divorce mediation, which is a neutral party that assists a couple in getting a divorce. So, the likely and correct answer is, marriage mediation is a neutral party that assists a couple in making the marriage work. Marriage mediation is not meant to replace intensive therapy that a couple or either of the individuals might need. The purpose is to help ward off a possible divorce in the future by addressing issues today. The professionals who are involved in the day to day … Continue reading →

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How to Manage Your Family’s Media Concerns

Posted on 2011/08/28

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Creating Your Own Destiny

Posted on 2011/03/26

Often times when faced with divorce, we think we have lost control, but in fact, we have the opportunity to create a new healthier future.  If we get honest with ourselves, usually, even the person that doesn’t want the divorce, is not totally happy in the relationship.   Once we come to grips with this, we are ready to look at what is ahead of us, as opposed to looking back.  From someone who has been through divorce and is now is an advocate for compassionate divorce mediation, I can guarantee there are positives that come from our struggles.  Wishing you the … Continue reading →

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Financial Q&A

Posted on 2006/12/01

Freya’s Financial Facts Regarding Divorce West Coast Woman Published December 2006 Question’s & Answers Question: I received an inheritance and was told by my investment advisor that I must put that money into a joint account with my spouse. We are now considering a divorce. What will happen to that money? Answer: If you receive an inheritance you do not need to put it in your spouse’s name. You were given incorrect information. Unfortunately many well meaning investment advisors are not trained in issues of divorce. If you keep the money in your own name then the money that was … Continue reading →

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Home Equity Credit

Posted on 2006/11/01

Freya’s Financial Facts Regarding Divorce  West Coast Woman Published November 2006 Close That Home Equity Line of Credit NOW! Many couples fall into the trap that banks unintentionally set when they arrange a home equity line of credit on their new home at the time of purchase. It all sounds very logical: open the line of credit now so it is there if you need funds later for home improvement or other perfectly legitimate purposes. And of course you are happily married when you do this, happy to have a new home and all the excitement that goes with it. … Continue reading →

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Divorce Mediation Q&A

Posted on 2006/10/01

Freya’s Financial Facts Regarding Divorce West Coast Woman Published October 2006 Questions & Answers About Divorce Question: My husband says it is over between us. He went to an attorney today. What should I do? Answer: Keep breathing. It can be an emotional event if you are faced with the reality of a divorce, but just because someone met with an attorney doesn’t mean it is a sign of war. More than likely, he or she is just getting informed; just like you want to be. It is a good idea for you both to become informed and whether or … Continue reading →

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The Dirty Word of Divorce

Posted on 2006/09/01

Freya’s Financial Facts Regarding Divorce West Coast Woman Published September, 2006  The Dirty Word of Divorce If you have not been affected by it, you are in the minority these days. The figures are staggering of the incidence of divorce in our country, our state and our own community. Over 50% of divorcing couples choose the “do it yourself approach” or pro se (self representing). If you are in the midst of a divorce or are even contemplating it, you are probably bewildered at this point. There is a lot to consider, from emotional issues relating to yourself and children … Continue reading →

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Property And Alimony In Divorce

Posted on 2006/07/01

PROPERTY SETTLEMENT AND ALIMONY IN DIVORCE It is very easy for divorcing parties to get confused about the treatment of property division and alimony as separate issues in divorce. Divorce settlement is a 3 step process in Florida. Step 1, is division of assets. It is important to note that this is completely separate from alimony. Often we will hear from a client that “he/she is getting that money in the settlement, therefore they don’t need alimony. ” It simply does not work that way. The marital property accumulated during a marriage is usually divided in half. Unless there is … Continue reading →

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