Property Settlement, Child Support and Alimony in Divorce

This article was written by Freya Robbins

It is very easy for divorcing parties to get confused about the treatment of property division and alimony as separate issues in divorce. Divorce settlement is a 3 step process in Florida.

Step 1, is division of assets. It is important to note that this is completely separate from alimony. Often we will hear from a client that “he/she is getting that money in the settlement, therefore they don’t need alimony. ” It simply does not work that way. The marital property accumulated during a marriage is usually divided in half. Unless there is a request for special consideration or “special equity” by one party, the norm is a 50/50 split.

When an asset cannot be divided or when the parties don’t want to physically divide an asset, (like a house), then there is an equalization payment by one party to the other to adjust the assets they are taking from the marriage. The most common example of this is a payment made from one spouse to the other to “buy out” his or her portion of the house.

The tax consequences in a divorce are very subtle and mistakes are often made. I won’t go into detail here, but determining the tax issues in divorce and planning for them is a major role of a CDFA.

Step 2, is alimony or spousal support. This is based on a variety of factors including the ability to pay of one party, the needs of the other, the length of the marriage, age, health and a variety of other criteria.

Although the assets received in the divorce are not considered alimony, they do come into consideration on the issue of need. If a wife, for example, receives $1,000,000 in liquid assets that produce $50,000 in income, then that $50,000 in income is used in determining her need as far as alimony is concerned. She will not however be required to use her principal to support her lifestyle.

Alimony is usually taxable, but not necessarily so. There are rare occasions when the parties agree that the alimony is neither tax deductible by the party paying nor taxable to the recipient.

Step 3, is child support. Child support is usually the guideline number from the state worksheet based on the party’s monthly income. There are cases when a different number is negotiated and both parties agree.

It is important to note that Child Support usually ends upon the emancipation of the child (June of the year they graduate from high school).

All of the above are the issues that need to be forecast and planned in a divorce. If you are relying solely on an attorney to plan your financial future you could be making a serious mistake. Divorce planning is forward looking and attorneys are just too busy to do financial planning for their clients. Many divorcing women, even today, do not understand the finances of their marriage and tend to make the following mistakes:

  •  Keeping the house at all costs, even though it is not liquid and may not be the best long term choice, and making the wrong mortgage choice when they refinance after the divorce.
  •  Keeping too much cash in the bank after a divorce rather than prudently investing it to produce additional income.
  •  Not setting aside money for taxes from their alimony payments each month to pay the IRS.
  •  Listening to non qualified individuals on financial planning matters is one of our concerns for you. Real estate agents and mortgage brokers are not necessarily financial planners and you should ask them for their credentials before accepting any financial planning advice.

Using the services of a CDFA is crucial to your long term success after divorce. Our fees are minimal compared to an attorney. Don’t let the opportunity pass you by.

Freya Robbins

Freya has been assisting families for years, combining professional training and her own experience in marriage, parenting and divorce; she truly relates to her clients. Freya founded Zollinger Mediation was in 2004, and she has been assisting families with divorce mediation, marital mediation, pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements and eldercare mediation since. Freya business is known as The Positive Alternative to adversarial divorce. She educates her clients and shares ideas in a straightforward but accepting way about how to resolve conflict. In addition to her mediation practice, Freya holds a Series 6 License and is licensed to sell Life and Health Insurance, Annuities, Mutual Funds and Retirement plans. She holds a Certification in Long Term Care (CLTC) and is certified as a Chartered Special Needs Consultant (ChSNC). She helps families with special needs as she has a son with Epilepsy. She also cared for both of her parents as they needed assistance with care and in preparation for passing. Freya has written articles for West Coast Woman Magazine, the Observer and has been volunteer speaker for the Women’s Resource Center of Sarasota County. Freya is an advocate for eliminating Childhood Sexual Abuse and serves on the Board of the Child Protection Center in Sarasota, FL. Freya raised her 2 children as a single parent while building her businesses. Freya serves on the board of the Sarasota County Senior Advocacy Council and Josh Provides Epilepsy Support Group. Her most recent claim to fame is her marriage to Loyd Robbins in May of 2015. Love lives again!